apply online or at a bank of america near you. >> gretchen: welcome back. the nation and the world grieving for the tragedy in newtown, connecticut. new york city's times square full of people holing candles and signs. flags flown at half-staff at the u.s. embassy in rome, italy. with crosses lining the beach in rio de janiero. mourners laying flowers in the sand. in pakistan, children sending messages of compassion, lighting candles on the streets in tribute. >> steve: that's nice. meanwhile, brand-new information just coming in about adam lanza and his mother, nancy. what happened before he went on a killing spree? people doocy just people with a confidentant, a friend of nancy lanza and joins us. >> i met rich collins last night at a restaurant called my place in newtown, which was one of nancy lanza's favorite places to go fortuner and drinks. rich told me that since he has a son with autism and nancy had a son, a asburgers, they would bond sometimes about the difficulties sometimes in dealing with that. listen to what he told me. >> nancy would get ups